KINDNESS:Love’s Quiet Power
In today's world, filled with outrage, division, tension, sarcasm, and anger, many fail to let love foster genuine patience. Consequently, acts of kindness rooted in love often falter. The apostle Paul emphasized love’s attributes by stating, “love is patient,” followed by “love is kind.” Recognizing kindness as the subtle strength of love, we should realize that biblical love not only steers clear of harm but actively seeks to do good.
WHAT THE BIBLE MEANS BY “KIND”
The Apostle Paul uses a unique word for kindness found only here in the Bible. This term is active and emphasizes the heart's need to develop a mindset that actively seeks to show kindness to others. Kindness is more than politeness or pleasantries; it involves deliberate compassion aimed at extending goodwill. It manifests as actions that help, bless, and serve others by alleviating their pain, fear, and worries. When Paul says, “love is kind,” he highlights that true kindness, as a trait of love, involves approaching others with compassion, even when it requires personal sacrifice.
KINDNESS REVEALS THE HEART OF GOD
God reveals and exemplifies the true nature of love through kindness. The Bible states, “But when the kindness of God our Savior and his love for mankind appeared, he saved us — not because of righteous deeds we had done, but because of his mercy — through the washing of regeneration and renewal by the Holy Spirit.” (Titus 3:4-5). We must notice the link between God’s kindness and his work of redemption. During his time on earth, Jesus showed kindness by touching lepers, welcoming children, and forgiving sinners. We offer kindness not merely out of obligation or obedience, but because it points others to redemption and reflects God's kindness. God’s kindness is not sentimental; it is ultimately saving.
WHERE KINDNESS IS NEEDED MOST
The power of kindness shines most brightly in everyday moments. It is love’s quiet strength, showing up regularly in our lives. We express this kindness through our tone of voice and actions—whether correcting someone, navigating disagreements, or simply living our daily lives. Our online interactions also reveal our genuine kindness. Unnoticed acts of service, generosity, and hospitality further extend love's gentle power. When we patiently support others as they grow, face grief, or show vulnerability, we demonstrate the true depth of kindness in our hearts. A loving, kind heart speaks loudly through these everyday actions.
WHAT KINDNESS IS NOT
A misinterpretation of kindness can undermine our commitment and obedience to truly practicing it. A worldly view of kindness may challenge our faithfulness by urging us to accept sin or sacrifice truth under the guise of kindness. It risks avoiding difficult conversations in favor of flattery and pleasing others. We are tempted to show kindness only to those who are easy to love, rather than to everyone. Biblical kindness, however, is not conditional; it remains steady and brave.
CULTIVATING A “LOVE IS KIND” LIFE
God’s kindness towards us should inspire us to show kindness to others. The gratitude we feel from God’s grace motivates us to slow down, recognize needs, and respond with grace, mercy, and a focus on Jesus. Our capacity for kindness isn’t solely from our strength but is empowered by the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22). When we deeply remember the gospel and live it out through kindness, it grows and spreads.
Paul’s statement, “love is kind” (1 Corinthians 13:4) isn’t merely a suggestion for a good life but an expectation for followers of Christ. We should live out our kindness motivated by the kindness we have received through salvation, allowing this kindness to reflect the Lord. Remember that when love rules, Christ becomes evident. Where is God calling you today to demonstrate kindness and provide a visible testimony of Christ?
